The Big Bang

Wednesday 18th March

Me and Elliot just arrived home from our weekly playgroup session, when the weather is fair I push Elliot there and back on his little trike which was a great freebie from Gran and Granpa, I parked the trike with Elliot in it just by the front door as I began to unlock it pick up the post I turned round to get Elliot out when I saw him stood up in the trike overreaching and with the blink of an eye the whole thing toppled over and Elliot landed head first on the flagstones, I felt sick he was crying and in pain I quickly untangled him from the trike and brought him inside to assess the damage, his bump started to expand and I applied pressure and got a cold compress and applied that to his head and cuddled and reassured him until he calmed down and the thought of internal bleeding started to cross my mind. I phoned the hospital and spoke to Alison who told me to take Elliot straight to the PED department A&E at Manchester Children's Hospital, because the Haemo Unit can not transfer and deal with Elliot needing any scans or emergency care, so I stuck one of the cool and sooth strips on his head and drove him to the hospital, I cried on the way and felt like a terrible mum and ran the if only s through my head... if only we had walked...if only he was wearing his protective hat. Elliot was quite happy though, sat in the back of the car chatting away and smiling so I tried to put on a brave face for him.

We arrived and Elliot had all his vitals checked and was swiftly give his factor 8 injection, he thankfully wasn't displaying any signs of head injury so we got to go home, we kept a close eye on him all evening and he was fine and his bump was pretty flat considering he would normally have a big egg/golf ball, I think applying pressure really helped keep it small.

Thursday arrived and Elliot was still his usual happy mischievous self and he had a visit from his Gran and and Nanna, they came round to check the damage and make sure little man was ok, he loved the attention and he especially enjoyed the little toy tow truck gift from Gran. Granddad came round for a visit on the Sunday and everyone agreed that Elliot's bump was a lot smaller then they thought it would be.

Between Sunday and Monday evening the Bump began to grow we figured he had a wrestles night and had re-bumped the bump on his cot (we put rolled up towels all round the cot to try and protect his head), or perhaps it was still bleeding from when he first done it. I promised Matt that I would contact the Haem unit on Tuesday and get some advice. One Tuesday the bump looked even bigger so promptly called Nurse Alison, she sounded concerned that the bump was bigger and again I should take Elliot straight to the PED to be looked at, so again we travelled to the hospital and we had a long wait of 2 and half hours this was a bit poop as they were expecting us and just had to check Elliot over and give him another jab if they felt he needed it, Doctor Sophia checked his vitals and gave Elliot another dose of factor also she told me to give him a course of Trans Acid to help the blood clot , and we were off on our way home. 

On top of all this Elliot has been doing quite a lot of bleeding from his mouth since Thursday  26th,which we think is teething related, the bleeding stopped this morning which is a relief and also the bump looks so much better! 

Big News Everyone Elliot counted to ten for the first time on Friday when my mum was playing building blocks with him, and we went for a bit of fresh air at the park and at the top of the slide I said 'are you ready?' and Elliot replied 'Ready steady go!' Our little Einstein (no pressure intended)

Other News, I received a letter from the DWP about the carers allowance I receive and it informed that from the 6th/4th/2015 I can earn an extra £110 a week on top of the benefits we receive for Elliot's condition, which is great news because this will give me an option to earn a little extra cash, if I did go to work it would have to fit in around caring for Elliot because that is my first priority, nice to know that the government is supporting people working and caring.

My life with Haemophilia

My dad popped round today to very kindly change a couple of failed window units, whilst we sat about chatting he told me of a video he had seen on the Haemo facebook page about two little boys dealing with their condition and overcoming the bruises and bleeds, it brought a tear to my eye but it was also great to see other people facing the same stuff and still playing football and other crazy stuff.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXf5lHyB1us

Disease Vs Disorder

This also led me to have a look on YouTube for Haemo related videos and their are a few one that was good but bugged me because it called Haemo a disease which does not sit well with me because it is actually a disorder I think the two words say two completely different things. Any way I came across another great little video by the kid above and think it's a nice one to show Elliot when he gets bigger

Mummy shares and Bag Essentials

Help another Haemo Mummy

I got a call from my Haemo nurse Alison yesterday, I was surprised, it was nice to chat to her about Elliot with out having any concerns for once! I was also touched when Alison asked me if I would talk to another mummy who has just had her son diagnosed with Severe Haemophilia A just like my little man, I thought wow, yeah it would be great to help another mummy with the same worries and concerns I had 17 months ago, so I got the new mummy's number and had to think a little about how to break the ice with a text.

I phoned up mummy, Kate, and had a great conversation for a good half an hour about Elliot and how the condition has affected us, I told her everything I could think of that I would of like to of known. The main thing is to not think about Haemo until her little baby Zak starts to crawl as he is only a week old and can not get up to much mischief yet (ah the fun is all yet to come). Kate was lovely and I feel great that I could have the opportunity to share our life experiences and hopefully calm the initial worries you get when you hear the diagnosis, (it was just like talking to myself, Kate had all the same questions I had).
 I hope you have a look through my blog Kate as I have tried to document all our Haemo adventures not only does it help me to write it all down but also other Haemo families might find understanding and comfort by reading it as I struggled to find anything at my time of research.

Bag Essentials

Mini First Aid

Everywhere I go I take this little kit with me, I keep it in Elliot's change bag just as important as his factor 8. The instant Ice packs are awesome for bangs and bumps when there is nothing else to hand, to be fair I have had to whip it out more for other peoples children. Get a kit like this from amazon. (Better to have it and not need it)

Great for instant cold relief on bumps

These strips are mint because they stick to the skin so when your little boy hurts his Head/Knee and does not want to sit and have a cold pack held on his skin you can just stick this on the affected area and he can go running around forgetting they have a cold strip stuck to them, this was my mums genius idea. If they are ever on offer in the shops I stock up, also you can reuse them a few times just keep the back you peel off and stick it back on when done hey presto. I used one today at playgroup when I saw Elliot teary eyed with a red mark on his head so I stuck one on his head for 10 Min's as he wondered around playing again no problems.

New Year Teething Problems

Bleed Time

17th October 2014

Another bleed this time in Elliot's hand, I think he must have banged it by putting it out to catch himself when falling over, it swelled up quite a bit around the wrist and thumb I had given it a couple of days to see if it would subside but it looked like it was getting bigger and sore so took him to the unit and he was treated straight away with some Factor 8 (big Sigh of relief) Cleared up no problems.

Can't pin point the Date

 Elliot had a bad soft tissue bleed in his right side, we had a hard time with this because we were refused Factor treatment from the hospital as it was not a joint bleed it was not seen to be a major problem, and still trying to not put factor 8 in his system if they can help it so he does not build up any inhibitors.

  Elliot was crying in pain so we took him A&E at about 9:30pm and despite the serious nature of Elliot's Haemo and the Hospital letter stating that he should be seen immediately upon arrival, we were not seen till 11pm! (annoyed because the doctor even though she was very nice just sent us back home, so I self treated him with cold strips stuck to the affected site and a dose of calpol to help with his discomfort, the next day was very hard I tried getting hold of the unit to ask for some advice and no one was available ( I felt so alone) Elliot did not bend down all day didn't really eat anything (not like him) he just wanted to stand in the middle of the living room and watch a film because he was to uncomfortable to play or cuddle, the day after was a different story the hospital was right to not be hasty as his bleed did ease up the 2nd day and he was a lot happier and all the nurses at the unit got back to me but whilst on the phone I could not help myself I just started crying down the phone to Nurse Alison who reassured me (all a bit overwhelming).

Christmas 

Elliot had a great Christmas my first time cooking a xmas dinner for us and my parents and I'm proud to say it was a success and no bruises bumps or bleeds for two months!

Lot's of presents to open and food to eat followed by lovely company and the best unexpected present from my Dad a digital radio for the kitchen (didn't realise how much atmosphere this adds to breakfast, Elliot dancing in the kitchen to Ed Sheeran).
 Evening we went to a big family gathering at my Aunties and Elliot danced his socks off in the kitchen with all the ladies till 11pm, also he would not let go of a mini pork pie all night (did I mention Elliot loves to dance and finds a beat in everything? He has been dancing since he could sit up, kids got rhythm! and I just realised that RHYTHM has not one vowel ...weird)

Teething problems

Bleeding from tooth at Nan and Grandads

Soooo the usual head bumps bruised knees and elbows as per and everything has been pretty quiet and plain sailing up until the past week where Elliot has had teething problems, I remember asking the unit when Elliot was about a month old do Haemo kids have bleeds when teething or losing the milk teeth to be told 'Nooo.. no problems to worry about there'... only yes there is for this Haemo kid!

I have found with Elliot's current teeth bottom and top incisors of which there is four of, have been pretty bleed free, Woke up to a bit of blood on his bed linen and a purple nodule on his big tooth whilst it was pushing through however;

This weekend and last night was very very bleedy, this is his right hand side top and bottom molars that look like they are giving him jip and the appearance of a mini vampire (blood dripping from his mouth) and this morning massacred bed sheets to boot. I asked the Haemo mums on facebook for a bit of advice some had never experienced any trouble with theirs and a couple suggested Tranexamic acid? huh never heard of it? Well I googled and yeah this sounds pretty good, a medicine that helps keep blood clots in place and reduce bleeding, I proceeded to phone our unit to ask for advice and they said they could prescribe Elliot Tran Acid to help his bleeding (I did not ask them for it as I did not want to seem presumptuous, they told me about it.. yay!) so my partner Matt went on a little road trip to the hospital with Elliot and collected the prescription, I gave little man a dose at dinner and will give him three doses a day for the next 4 days, poor little dude .. road to recovery now... 

Bloody sheets from this morning

Any Haemo families out there wondering what may happen to a Haemo kid I hope me sharing helps you xx